The 3-6-9 manifestation method is a popular technique that is often used with visualization for those who want to focus on the attraction of love. You have to state a specific intention multiple times a day, and visualize what it would feel like to be in a healthy, fulfilling relationship.But there’s no scientific evidence that manifestation can make a particular person want you — or that it can even promise romantic love. However, these exercises may help you clarify your relationship goals, reinforce positive beliefs and encourage actions that may help you connect.